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Anne's avatar

Super helpful, thank you!

Ryan Carnes's avatar

You’re welcome! I actually have a follow-up to this article/concept with an interactive guide coming next week.

The Hidden Side of Leadership's avatar

The key to effective direct report engagements is the one on one sessions. This takes it to a whole new level. I have bene encouraging collaborative development and engagement. This takes to a whole new level! I will pass this a long. It may well be a very effective move for leaders and direct reports ready to move the the next level. Thanks!

Ryan Carnes's avatar

Glad it hit with you! This is something that I’ll likely expand on and provide some resources in the future. It has certainly been something that has gotten good feedback thus far and has helped change a few performance environments within teams.

The Hidden Side of Leadership's avatar

Yes! I can understand the interest. 1:1 sessions are so important.

Bastian's avatar

The shift from "manager drives" to "employee leads" sounds simple — but it changes the entire psychological contract of the relationship.

When employees own the agenda, they stop performing for you and start thinking for themselves. The pre-meeting guide is the real unlock here: structure removes the awkwardness of "I don't know what to bring up."

Most new managers never flip this because they confuse being prepared with being in control.

Ryan Carnes's avatar

It’s a tough one, but definitely worth the flip! Great insight about the confusion of being prepared vs in control!

Luca Foppoli's avatar

I’ve been taught early to let the employee drive, but had never thought of a pre-meeting guide.

It would surely have made meetings more productive for both.

Thanks for the insight!

Now waiting for your proposal of pre-meeting guide though :)

Rachael Heald's avatar

A really simple and straightforward framework for 1:1 to make them empowering. I love saying “this your time, how can I help you today?”